24 July 2014
0727 hrs
Good Morning, Patient Reader .
. .
Once again we are here.
Here it is, Nowadays . . .
So let’s begin . . .
Intimacy . . .
The ability to need to experience emotional closeness
with another human being and have it returned with or without sex. Caring and Sharing . . . Love and Like . . .
Risk taking . . . Vulnerability . . . Self-disclosure . . . Trust . . .
How do we trust one another? How will we respond?
Sexual Identity . . .
Development of a sense of who one is sexually, including
the sense of maleness/femaleness . . .
Gender Identity . . . Gender Perception . . . Gender Role
. . .
Sexual Orientation . . . Biological Sex . . . Sexual
Characteristics . . . Genitalia . . .
Gender Fluidity (?) I have possession of gender fluid . .
. sometimes from both sexes depending on my girlfriend’s schedule.
(c) Properfessor
Differences between “labels” and “behaviors” . . .
Intersex . . .
Sexual Health/ Reproduction . . .
Attitudes and behavior related to production of children
. . . Care and Maintenance of the sex and reproductive organs and the health consequences of sexual behavior . . .
Factual Information . . . Feelings and Attitudes . . .
Sexual/Reproductive Systems . . . Anatomy and Physiology . . . Intercourse . .
. Reproduction . . .
Sexualization . . .
The use of Sexuality to influence,
Control, or Manipulate others . . .
Rape . . . Incest . . . Sexual Harassment . . .
Withholding . . . Seduction/Flirting with negative attachment . . .
I withheld Sex from myself just this morning, despite my
nearly-insurmountable desire to light some candles, put on some Barry White or
some Marvin Gaye, and have at myself.
Sensuality . . .
Awareness, Acceptance,
and Comfort with one’s own body . . . Physiological and Psychological
Enjoyment of one’s own body and the bodies of others . . .
Body Image . . . Human Sexuality . . . Response Cycle . .
. Skin Hunger . . . Fantasy . . .
What are your definitions of the words in these lists,
Patient Reader? What do they mean to
you? How do you sense your own proprioception;
your own sense of awareness within their spaces? What effects, positive and negative is
wrought by the reading of these words?
Do we need to evaluate or reevaluate ourselves? Always.
We are, from birth, Sexual Beings. We sometimes forget this fact, thinking we
are only sexual from puberty to retirement or menopause or whatever finish line
is the yardstick by which you measure your own self. But this is not true.
That is not to say that we fuck from the fetus to the
grave- I am not suggesting that at all.
That would occupy the worst spots on the Sexualization spectrum. But we are conceived sexually and we not only
must find our place within the parameters of our sexuality, but we should
demand it of us, as we are deserving of this realization . . . of our
self-actualization.
Knowledge, and the healthy acting upon it, is liberation.
(c) Properfessor
Look inside yourself, Patient Reader, and discover the
Intimacy there. Find your own Sexual
Identity and be accepting of others’.
Maintain Sexual Health and if you so choose. Reproduce, if that is the plan you plan.
Understand Sexualization and forgive yourself if you
yourself have been sexualized or exploited sexually . . . It Is Not Your
Fault. Period. Find a way to heal.
Discover your own Sensuality. Realize the awesome potential you hold in the
composition of your Being. Learn to
enjoy healthy relationships, whatever you believe them to be . . . however you
define them. Love others and yourself.
Or not. The
choice, as always, is yours.
Shall I wish all you Faithful CFFers the very best of
days?
Splendid! Consider it so.
Always,
The Cunning Fennec Fox
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