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24 July, 2014

Intimacy, Sexual Identity, Sexual Health, Sexualization, Sensuality, and the Cunning Fennec Fox

24 July 2014
0727 hrs



Good Morning, Patient Reader . . .

            Once again we are here.  Here it is, Nowadays . . .

So let’s begin . . .


            Intimacy . . .






            The ability to need to experience emotional closeness with another human being and have it returned with or without sex.  Caring and Sharing . . . Love and Like . . . Risk taking . . . Vulnerability . . . Self-disclosure . . . Trust . . .

            How do we trust one another?  How will we respond? 

           





            Sexual Identity . . .

            Development of a sense of who one is sexually, including the sense of maleness/femaleness . . .



            Gender Identity . . . Gender Perception . . . Gender Role . . .
            Sexual Orientation . . . Biological Sex . . . Sexual Characteristics . . . Genitalia . . .

            Gender Fluidity (?) I have possession of gender fluid . . . sometimes from both sexes depending on my girlfriend’s schedule.

(c)  Properfessor




            Differences between “labels” and “behaviors” . . .

            Intersex . . .





            Sexual Health/ Reproduction . . .

            Attitudes and behavior related to production of children . . . Care and Maintenance of the sex and reproductive organs and the health consequences of sexual behavior . . .





            Factual Information . . . Feelings and Attitudes . . . Sexual/Reproductive Systems . . . Anatomy and Physiology . . . Intercourse . . . Reproduction . . .





           



            Sexualization . . .






            The use of Sexuality to influence, Control, or Manipulate others . . .

            Rape . . . Incest . . . Sexual Harassment . . . Withholding . . . Seduction/Flirting with negative attachment . . .



            I withheld Sex from myself just this morning, despite my nearly-insurmountable desire to light some candles, put on some Barry White or some Marvin Gaye, and have at myself.





            Sensuality . . .




            Awareness, Acceptance, and Comfort with one’s own body . . . Physiological and Psychological Enjoyment of one’s own body and the bodies of others . . .


            Body Image . . . Human Sexuality . . . Response Cycle . . . Skin Hunger . . . Fantasy . . .






            What are your definitions of the words in these lists, Patient Reader?  What do they mean to you?  How do you sense your own proprioception; your own sense of awareness within their spaces?  What effects, positive and negative is wrought by the reading of these words?
           


            Do we need to evaluate or reevaluate ourselves?  Always.








            We are, from birth, Sexual Beings.  We sometimes forget this fact, thinking we are only sexual from puberty to retirement or menopause or whatever finish line is the yardstick by which you measure your own self.  But this is not true. 
           


            That is not to say that we fuck from the fetus to the grave- I am not suggesting that at all.  That would occupy the worst spots on the Sexualization spectrum.  But we are conceived sexually and we not only must find our place within the parameters of our sexuality, but we should demand it of us, as we are deserving of this realization . . . of our self-actualization. 




            Knowledge, and the healthy acting upon it, is liberation.

(c)  Properfessor

            Look inside yourself, Patient Reader, and discover the Intimacy there.  Find your own Sexual Identity and be accepting of others’.  Maintain Sexual Health and if you so choose.  Reproduce, if that is the plan you plan.
           
            Understand Sexualization and forgive yourself if you yourself have been sexualized or exploited sexually . . . It Is Not Your Fault.  Period.  Find a way to heal.



            Discover your own Sensuality.  Realize the awesome potential you hold in the composition of your Being.  Learn to enjoy healthy relationships, whatever you believe them to be . . . however you define them.  Love others and yourself.



            Or not.  The choice, as always, is yours.
           
            Shall I wish all you Faithful CFFers the very best of days?  

Splendid!  Consider it so.

            Always,






            The Cunning Fennec Fox

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